In this blog, I would like to
share some learning I had from the half marathon I participated two weeks back.
This was my third half marathon since I have taken up running as a hobby around two years back. In my earlier two marathons I had finished the half
marathon (21.07 kilometer) clocking 2 hours 1 minutes, which by all stretch of
imagination was an excellent achievement for a person who had just taken running as a passion. This time I was
very enthusiastic and passionate about my running as last two marathons were
run around a year back and in last one year I had practiced consistently and
was confident this time of breaking the 2 hours mark of completion. I started off well and the early morning weather was conducive for running and I was cruising towards my goal till about 16 kilometers. One and half hour through the marathon
at 7.30 am I had already covered the distance of 16 kms out of 21 kms distance, however
the sun was blowing in full and it started taking toll on me. At this point
instead of continuing with the momentum, I started taking breaks at short
intervals to avoid dehydration and cramps due to the heat without realizing that these break
will have impact on my target for the finish. As it was destined, I completed the half
marathon clocking 2 hours 41 seconds, thus missing my set goal, just
because I could not keep my strength till the finish line and allowed to
drift the momentum with which I had ran 2/3rd distance of the
marathon and did not give that one extra effort.
I could relate this instance so very well with so many instances we
come across in life when we give up after covering 99% of the distance because
we do not maintain the same momentum till the finish line and we drift on our
goal and fall short of our set goals. As the saying goes, “doing 90% of what is
required is one of the biggest wastes, because you have nothing to show for all
your efforts.” Instead you must develop the habit of staying committed and
finishing strong.
A truly inspiring example of
finishing strong can be drawn from the story of ace swimmer Michael Phelps who
won eight gold medals in the Beijing Olympics to break the record of most
medals ever won in a single Olympiad. Most captivating story of his journey was
from the seventh contest (100 m butterfly) where Phelps was running behind for
99.9 meters of the distance. Realizing the same in last fraction of a second
Phelps thrust his arm into one final stroke while his competitor for final few
inches was coasting. Phelps tapped the wall first beating his competitor by a
mere one hundredth of a second. Phelps stretched himself with that extra effort
to finish it strong.
Most of us may not experience
such a dramatic moment in our lifetimes, but we do make daily choices to either
stretch or coast towards the finish lines we create for ourselves through
personal goals. They are often small decisions, routine things we do not think
about a lot while they have a power to determine much of our success.
Reaching the finishing line can
be as simple as completing an almost finished project by putting that extra
effort to cross the finishing line. Unfinished projects drains your mental energy.
It derails your goals. It impacts how you feel about yourself and critically it
undermines your reliability in the minds of others.
To put it simple, “Procrastination is the enemy of progress."
Life is full of such moments that require that extra effort, one
more stretch to reach the finish line, to achieve success. If you do not have
the discipline to persevere well, you are going to end up like Phelps
competitors, looking up at the winner from a lower podium or even worse.
Few suggestions which could be helpful in building the habit of
finishing strong:
1.
Engage
in brick by brick thinking. Success requires daily progress. This is possible only when you practice with regular discipline every
day as these small, incremental actions turn into tangible steps toward
success. All success is built and sustained just like a building is built, one
brick at a time.
2.
Amplify
the reward: When you don't feel like doing what you should, then focus on
why finishing is important. The why can keep you motivated even when you lack
desire. Motivation is fickle. You can't depend on your emotions to keep you
committed to your goals. So think of the end result and keep it in the
forefront of your mind. How will you feel when you accomplish your goal? Why is
it a priority for you? By focusing on the answers you will create for yourself
strong change of reaching your goals.
3.
Build
structure and systems around your goals: Great intentions will not take
you very far. You need systems, they make it easier for you to stay
disciplined. You should have insatiable hunger to learn. Fill your life with
systems that would move you forward and push you to reach your wall.
4.
Surround
yourself with support: You should have a network of people who
supports you and encourage you in your goals. If you want to succeed, surround
yourself with people who will help you, encourage you and when necessary hold
your feet to the fire. Remember to choose wisely, your success largely depend
on the company you keep.
5.
Quitting
isn't an option: A great start is important, because all's well that ends well.
But it takes much more to reach your goals. Think of it like farming - you can
prepare the land immaculately and plant the seeds just right, but if you don't
water, fertilize and cultivate as you go, than you wasted your time by planting
the crop. Remember the reward that awaits you - the fruit you will harvest -
and it will help you get you through the times of hard work in the summer. When
you made the choice to start, you made the choice to finish. It isn't two
choices...it’s one. If you aren't careful quitting can become a habit, however
if you practice diligently finishing can also become a habit.
It is absolutely true that the
fortune is at the finish line and that is why Michael Phelps aggressively reach
for the wall at that critical moment. He could do this because he had practiced
finishing strong every day of his life. And that made the difference between
gold and silver. Let us remember, oftentimes, the only thing separating us from
success is a few inches. So do not let up, and reach for the finish line.
Source:
Learnings from articles written by John Maxwell and Darren Hardy
Very nice post my Friend. Please keep writing. All the best.
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